You don't need more insight. You need to stop abandoning yourself at the moment it matters.
A free live session for women who already know, and are tired of not living from it.
Thursday 2 July 2026
7:00pm AEST
Live via Zoom
Replay sent to all registrants
"You don't become courageous once everything lines up.
You become courageous when you stop waiting for it to."-Nic
You've done the work. And the gap is still there.
Between what you know and how you actually live. Between the clarity you feel in quiet moments and the way you collapse when it counts.
This isn't an insight problem. It's a self-abandonment pattern.
In this session, we're going to name it clearly.
You'll leave with:
Recognition of exactly where you abandon yourself, including the subtle patterns you haven't had language for.
An understanding of why awareness alone hasn't been enough to shift it.
Something practical. Not more information. Honest clarity.
This session is free. It's also not casual.
If you're ready to look honestly at where you're leaving yourself, register below.
This session is free. It's also not casual.
If you're ready to look honestly at where you're leaving yourself, register below.
Live session via Zoom. A replay will be sent to all registrants. By registering you'll receive occasional emails from Nicol Heard. You can unsubscribe at any time.
Frequently Asked Questions
Self-abandonment is the pattern of overriding your own knowing, needs, or truth in favour of approval, comfort, or perceived safety. It often shows up in subtle ways: saying yes when you mean no, waiting for permission you don't actually need, or second-guessing yourself the moment someone pushes back.
A replay will be sent to everyone who registers. You'll have access to watch in your own time.
Yes. This session is specifically designed for women who already have significant self-awareness and are wondering why the patterns haven't fully shifted.
60 minutes
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