Somewhere along the way, we absorbed a lie: that life would be better if we perfected ourselves. That our messy bits should be hidden, tamed, or endlessly improved.

But humanness is messy — and that is exactly what makes it beautiful, rich, and alive.

I’ve lived enough to know that perfection is not where our freedom lies. Freedom lives in our raw honesty. In our Intuitive Intelligence. In daring to see beyond the stories of good and bad — and living in higher service to who we really are.

Pause for a moment and ask: Who decided what perfection looks like for you? Was it your parents? Your school? That first boss who told you to “be more professional”? The spiritual circles that labelled your doubts as “low vibration”? Most of us never choose consciously. We inherited rules. We absorbed judgements. And we never stopped to question: Is this true for me? We were taught to fear the messy parts—to see them as evidence of failure, weakness, or lack. But what if your mess is just life unfolding, honestly? What if it’s not a problem but an opening?

What if instead of striving for perfection, you devoted yourself to living in higher service to your whole self?

This is not about being selfish. It’s about aligning every thought, choice, and action with what feels deeply true, loving and alive for you — not what pleases the world.

Intuitive Intelligence is your inner compass for this. It reminds you:

When you live in higher service to yourself, you naturally serve others better, too. Your honesty liberates them to drop their masks. Your compassion invites them home to themselves.

If you’re craving a space where your messy humanness and intuitive truth are not just allowed but welcomed—come join my Clear the Fog Circle. It’s free, gentle, and yours. And when you’re ready for deeper devotion, step into The Messy Temple—where we practice living and leading in higher service together. Join the Clear the Fog Circle.